Who can you romance in Mass Effect 3?

Unfortunately, the Romance article on the Mass Effect Wikia doesn’t have the options listed yet, and I’m a little paranoid about digging deeper on google for fear of running into major story spoilers (hell, I’m paranoid about those just on this site).

Who are the romance options (both same-sex and opposite-sex) that count for “Paramour” for male and female Shepards?

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    I’m going to keep this to names only in the interest of minimizing spoilers.


    #: Only availiable as a continued romance if initiated in Mass Effect 2
    ^: Same Sex Romance option
    %: Not a Squad Member
    $: Does not count towards ‘Paramour’ achievement

    All listed relationships except for Diana Allers count for Paramour.

    Male Shepard

    Tali #
    Miranda #%
    Steve Cortez ^%
    Kaidan ^
    Jack #%
    Diana Allers %$

    Female Shepard

    Liara ^
    Garrus #
    Samantha Traynor ^%
    Diana Allers ^%$

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